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September: The Gateway Month

      “The proof of love is in the works. Where love exists, it works great things. But when it ceases to act, it ceases to exist.” – St. Gregory the Great

      As the pressure to live the “perfect” summer dissipates, you will begin to feel extra space. Pressure makes diamonds, and it is an ideal month to reignite your sparkle. If you are a parent of school-age children or college-age adults, you likely just gave the back-to-school motivational talks. “Make new friends. Join clubs. Study hard.” Having children is a lifelong commitment to love forever. However, back to school means “back to you.” Once again, we thank all of you for following us for so many years and for sharing this enlightening news with your single family and friends. We love you back.

      Along with flirting with the last quarter of the year, single adults are thinking about what it would be like to be in a relationship again. This is called “healthy stress,” and it will move you forward. “Unhealthy stress” will freeze you in your spot and hold you back. What would you tell your younger self entering into a new chapter of life? Thoughts of coupling off are unavoidable this time of year, don’t stress the inevitable. As the prelude to cuffing season, September invites us to embrace change, leave our comfort zone, and experience the journey of falling in love (again). In the same way you encourage young people to go after their dreams, we urge you to take your own advice while you are youthful enough to enjoy it! 

Connection.

      September merges an ending with a beginning, a time when the universe seems to take a collective breath. We are in a moment of subtle yet profound change. Leaves are changing, and the energy is different this time of year. This prepares us for the revolution that lies ahead – the prospect of finding deep and meaningful connections before the year ends. Biological factors are at play. Whether you like it or not, the human body will biologically seek emotional support through relationships—super loaded this time of year. It’s science. Love is in our DNA. Above a healthy eating lifestyle and ten thousand steps a day–longevity is contingent on connection.

Anticipation.

      As the days grow shorter, the anticipation of cuffing season begins to build. This idea of “cuffing season” may be seen as just one of many cultural influences through the media, but there’s no denying that you have not felt this feeling too. This is the prequel to holiday romance. Your new beau will be chiming in soon. Believe it and live on this trajectory and it will present itself—because you are living “as if” it has already happened. Fight it or buck it and you may have another holiday season solo. It will be a “you problem” if you do. This is a two-man job–and it won’t happen unless your mind and body are living it…before it even happens. This can lead to thrilling adventures and unexpected encounters that culminate in lasting relationships. It is said that relationships that begin in the Fall Season have a higher rate of longevity and sustainability.

Behold The Learning Curve.

      Just as nature adapts to the seasons, you can too. You can overcome any hurdles that may be blocking your (romantic) growth. Today we know more than we did yesterday. Our knowledge of what you need and who you need is at your service and has been for 34 years and counting. We meet clients who are easy to match because of their own strengths. Likewise, we have clients who need some tweaking. We urge you to keep your ears open, because no one is perfect, and you might need some work to prepare for your new plus one. Be open to learning as you enter into a relationship again and embark on a new dating journey.

The Solution.

      Welcome September with the excitement of a child on the first day of school. Pretend you are on a college campus again. Make new friends. Try new things. Join new clubs. Get yourself out there and be seen by new (single) people. Say goodbye to your old life and greet your new life with open arms and an open heart. You can be living a completely different reality by the holidays. Let’s hit the last part of 2025 with the strength and courage we instill in our children as they go to school.

      There are people ready and excited to meet you. Someone is waiting to fall in love — with you. Be present and available so they can find you. Reach out to connect to the hottest and most well-respected matchmaking firm, ideally located just for you. Stay in love with life. Let it love you back.

      Thank us later.

XOXO, Kelly & Miranda

#LoveOffline #ChangeIsGood #TellYourFriends #MatchmakingRoyalty #CuffingSeason

      Kelly Leary, M.S.^© is CEO and Founder of Revolution Dating which she launched in 2014. Kelly has 34 years in the dating industry and a master’s degree in clinical psychology. She has been written about in Modern Luxury Magazine Palm Beach and Modern Luxury Manhattan, The Palm Beach Post, The Shiny Sheet, Stuart News, Jupiter Magazine, and many more. Revolution Dating clients are pre-screened in person, including background checks and ID verification. Professional photos are taken by the staff. Revolution Dating is NOT online dating or blind dating. In addition to providing matchmaking services that make singles “UN-single” through their exclusive club memberships, Kelly and Miranda provide feedback from dates when appropriate. Mock Dates are available by request. Single Coaching Sessions and Evaluations are available by request for non-members or as an add-on to some memberships. *All inquiries are confidential *Specializing in representing jet-setting clients with a second home in the Northeast. Do call the central hotline at 561-630-9696 (XOXO) or scan the QR code to hold your place in the club. Why wait? Just Date!

Fall in Love at Revolution Dating

Upscale single, divorced, and widowed clientele are ready to live and love offline and the demand for quality matchmakers is soaring. With record-breaking match success and clients enrolling every day, it is clear everyone wants the love we give. Revolution Dating specializes in screening and representing clients from the Northeast to Palm Beach for decades. Take a look at the love overflowing out of the Revolution Dating Corporate Headquarters of Love in PGA Commons, where they have been established for eleven successful years and counting. Do tell your single friends about this grand gesture of love and hope in your local area. He who hesitates is lost, so get “unstuck” and book your first interview today. September is the perfect time to REV-up your love life. #TellYourFriends #FallInLove